Matthew Says Thank-You
Matthew Barber’s Journey: From Struggles to Healing
My name is Matthew Barber. I’m 28 years old, a husband, and a father of two. I was also known as Master Corporal Barber.
Deployment and Struggles with PTSD
In 2010, I deployed to Afghanistan with the Canadian Forces Battle Group. For five years, I struggled with the aftermath of my deployment, making it nearly impossible to live a normal life. To escape, I ran from Hamilton, Ontario, to Forest Grove, British Columbia. Like my three-year-old son hiding from monsters under the blankets, I tried to hide from my problems in a remote part of BC.
The Breaking Point
Eventually, the issues I was running from caught up to me. In November of last year, I reached a breaking point and attempted to take my own life. I couldn’t take it anymore and was diagnosed with PTSD.
Support and Help from Legacy Place
With great support from my wife, I reached out to Veterans Affairs and got set up with Care West OSI Clinic in Calgary. Since I was out of work, I needed a place to stay while undergoing therapy, which was required for a week at a time.
Difficult Beginnings
For the first few weeks, I stayed with family, but it made things worse. Without money and relying on the Royal Canadian Legion for transportation to and from BC, I was in a tough spot.
A Life-Changing Stay at Legacy Place
Then, I was introduced to Legacy Place in Calgary. For just $15 a night, I stayed in a clean, beautiful house with my own room. The young soldier who manages the house was incredibly supportive, making a huge difference in my healing process.
Healing and Hope
This past week, while continuing my therapy, staying at Legacy Place has been the best experience I’ve had in a long time. I finally feel my life starting to improve.
Matthew Barber